Every Relation Need Its Space

We Have Lot Of Relations,
     And Those Every Relations Have Its Own Different Element Within It.

No Matter What Relation Is;
     But We Can Connect To Others Only Through Relation, Right.?
          And We Can Not Force Anyone To Stay In That Same Relation For Us,
               As It Is Completely That Person's Choice.

Now-a-days What We Are Doing Is,
     We Try To Restrict People For Staying A Long With Us In Relations;
          But That Actually Makes Wrong Effect On Our Relations.

No Matter How Close And Strong Relations You Have With Anyone;
       But Those Relations Also Need Some Space.

Based On Bonding And Closeness,
     You Can Decide Your Space In That Relation.

What We Can Do For Our Relation Is,
     Simply Give Some Space To That Person By Which No One Would Feel Restriction Within That Relation.

So Just Try To Give Space In Relations And Then Enjoy Your Every Relations.

Do Not Laugh On Others And Do Not Allow Anyone's Laugh To Effect On You

Many People Have Habit Of Making Fun On Others.

People Who Laugh On Others,

      They Think Like "They Are Very Intelligent";

           But By Their This Action Someone On Whom They Laughing May Feel Very Nervous.

Yeah, Not Everyone Is Perfect,

     So Mistakes Are Natural To Be Done.

If You Make Laugh On That Person Who Is Actually Try To Do Things Properly;

     But In That Try They Making Mistakes,

          Then That Person Would Getting Be More Nervous.

So Do No Laugh On Anyone's Mistake And Failure,

     Instead Of Laughing On That Person Just Try To Help Them.

Just Need To Get Out From Own Finite Space For Living Different From Now

As You Have To Come Out From Your Comfort Zone For Getting Desired Things,

      Do Things Beyond Your Comfort Zone

Likewise If You Don't Come Out From Your Finite Space,
     Then How Can You Able To Live Beyond From Up To Now.?

However You Lived Up To Now That Is Done,
     And You Can Not Do Anything In That,
          Except You Can Learn From Whatever Mistakes You Did;
               But If You Really Want To Live Something Different From That,
                    Then Definitely You Need To Get Out Of From Your Finite Space.

In Starting It May Be Seem As Very Difficult;
     But As Time Passes And By Continuing Trying In That,
           You Will Start To Get Interest In That.

Need To Be Come Forward To Sustain The Beauty Of Nature

We All Want That Everything Surrounding Us Must Be Neat And Clean, 

We All Are Living In Between The Beautiful Nature,

     And We Have Nature's Beauty As Gift.

                       Beauty Of Nature

But We Also Know That All Surrounding Things And Nature Need To Be Retained As Well. 

      So It Is Required To Retain It Properly And We Need To Do It;

           But At The Other Side We Are Expected From Others To Start It First.

Likewise If All The Others Think Same Like This,

     Then Who Will Be Come Forward To Start It First?

So Do Not Wait For Other And Start It Over,

     Be The First One To Start Any Positive Change.

Sometimes We Automatically Remember Some Meaningless Incidents

So Many Incidents Happen With Us In Our Lives. 

From Those All Incidents Some Of Are Meaningful And Some Of Are Meaningless.

Based On Different Situations And With Different People,

      Incidents Are Happened In Our Lives.

Our Brain Remembers Some Of From Those Incidents Automatically For Permanent Or Temporarily.

Generally We Want To Remember Incidents Like Which Can Be Helpful To Us In Future.

But Unfortunately That Is Not In Our Hand,

      As It Totally Under Control Of Our Brain.

So Many Times We Forget About Whatever We Want To Remember.

Sometimes We Remember Some Incidents Automatically Which Even Doesn't Make Any Sense.

Distance Is Not Make Any Effect In Some Special Relations

No Matter How Long Distance Is But Not Ever Effect In Relations,
     If And Only If Those Relations Are Of Emotions But Not Of Responsibility.

Generally, Relations Are Built Of Either Emotions Or Responsibility.

If Relations Are Of Just Responsibility Only,
     Then It Will Be As Only Of Responsibility For Always,
          And Any Third Person Can Do Any Level Of Damage By Creating Little Difference Also In Relation, Because Its Base Is Very Weak.

If There Is Emotions In Relations Then It Shines Very Brightly,
     And No One Can Make Any Difference In That Relation,
          Because Its Base Is Very Strong As It Is Be Of Emotions. 

There Is No Matter Of Distance In Relations Which Having Emotions,
      Emotions Are Very Essential Element In Any Of The Relations,
           Those Some Relations Are Very Special,
                Everyone Are Not Much Lucky To Have Those Relations.

If Some People Have Those Relations,
     Then Most Of Them Do Not Either Value It Or Deserve It.

So If You Have Relations Which Having Element Of Emotions,
     Then Kindly Value It And Be The Best For That Relation.

One Person Can Not Be As Everything For Everyone

We All Have Many Different Relations With So Many People,
     And It Is Very True That We Can Not Be As Everything For Each Of Them.

Yeah, This Is Sometimes Possible That We Can Be As Everything For Someone, 
     If You Are The One Who Is Mean To Everything For Any Someone Special,
          Then Definitely You Are Very Lucky.
     If You Have That Person That Mean For You As Your Everything,
          Then You Are More Luckier.

Except This, One Person Can Not Be As Everything For Every Person Who Are Related In His/Her Life;
     But We Are Busy In Trying This Impractical Thing At Every Single Moment Of Each Day.

So Try To Avoid Trying For This Impractical Thing,
     Try To Be As Everything For Few Particular Special Persons In Your Life.

Make Your Life More Adventurous

When Life Starts To Become Boring, Very Boring,

     Then Try Something Different, Something New Like Adventures In Life.

May Be, It Will Be Difficult Or Give You Unusual Results;

     But Still Try Something Different For Getting Life's Interest Back.

If You Do Not Able To Handle Any Unusual Situations,

     Then Do Not Try Anything Adventures.

People Are Not Change But Their Behavior Towards Us Is Change

We Surrounded By Many People Including Family Members, Neighbors, Relative And Of Course Friends.

As Time Passes We Feel Like They Are Changed;

     But In Actual, Their Behavior Towards Us Are Changed.

We Make Wrong Try To Change Them,

     Because In Reality They Are Not Changed At All;

          But There Is Probably Change Occurred In Their Situation, Equations, Thoughts, Scenarios Or Priorities For Us.

People's Behavior Are Change As Per Changes Occurred In Their Situations, Thoughts And Priorities. So We Need To Reset Those Change, But Not To Change The Person.

Sometimes Okay To Use Unusuality For Getting Usual Things

Sometime, It Is Needed To Do Unusual Things Or Behavior For Getting The Usual Results.

It Happens Sometimes That Usual Things Start Movements,
     And That Make Our Desired Arrangement To Very Messy.

So For Getting It To Correct Back Again,
     It Is Okay To Do Something Unusual.

That Will Give You Your Usual Results,
     If You Will Do It In Proper Way With Right People.

Sometimes Using Unusuality Things Getting More Messed Up, So Try To Use It Properly.

We All Are Aware About Whatever We Do Is Right Or Wrong

Everyone Knows Very Clearly That What They Are Doing,
     And Are Also Aware About That Whatever They Doing Is Right Or Wrong.

Everyone Are Right Or Wrong, Based On Their Respective Point And Situations.

If Someone Feels Right About Something,
     Then Only That Person Get Involved Into That Work, Right?

Mostly People Get Involved In Any Work, If And If They Find It Right.

Yeah, Sometimes Whatever We Do Is Right For Us;
     But At Same Time Wrong For Others And Vice Versa.

Some Facts About Messed Up Life

We All Have Experienced At Least Once That,
     We Feel Like Everything Is Messed Up In Life And Got Stuck At Some Point.

At That Time, We Have Two Options, 
     Either To Quit Or To Keep Wait.

Generally We Select Quit Option As It Is Very Easy;
     But After Selecting It,We Can Never Properly Arranged Our Messed Up Things.

So Always Select The Option Of Waiting.
     Yeah, May Be It Can Be Proved Tough Option;
          But If You Want Everything As Back Again,
               Then Do Not Lose Hope And Just Keep Waiting.

But Waiting Without Action Is Also Same As Quitting.
     Means, If You Are Doing Nothing While Waiting,
          Then It Means You Are Waiting For Any Miracle, Right.?
               But Miracle Happens Very Rarely,
                    So It Is Better For You To Doing Something By Yourself For Your Messed Up Things.

Do Not Do Idle Wait; But Always Try To Involved In Some Actions Related To Your Messed Up Things To Make It Arrange Properly.

Do Not Blame Others For Your Bad Incidents

Sometimes Some Incidents Effect On Us Very Badly,

     And We Want To Forget That Incident 

          As Much As We Try To Forget As Many Times It's Related Thoughts Come Into Our Mind Again And Again And We Feel Like Getting Stuck Somewhere.

If Same Person Is Involved With Our Most Of Bad Incidents,

     Then We Start To Hate That Person, 

          No Matter That Person Is Get Involved Either With Or Without Intense.

This Is Basic Human Nature, Right.?

     But This Is Not Right Also.

If Person Is Involved In Any Of Your Bad Incident With Intense,

     Then You Need To Keep Distance From That Person.

But Mostly People Do Not Involved Intensely In Any Of Wrong Incidents For Others, 

      Because People Are Not Bad But Sometimes Their Situations May Be Bad.

            To Know The Person, Need To Take Person's Quality In Consideration

So Think Twice About Others' Situations Also Before Blaming On Other For Any Of Your Bad Incidents.

Impress Your Own-self For You

Nowadays We All Are Very Busy In Just Making Impression On Others,

     Meanwhile We Are Forgetting To Make Impression On Our Own-selves.

We All Make Lots Of Complaints To Others;

     But This Can Be Most Important Complaint That We Should Make To Ourselves Is,               "Is It Important To Impress Others Rather Than Our Own-self, Really.!?"

It Is Okay To Make Impression On Others;

     But For Doing That,

           Firstly Very Necessary Thing Is To Make A Strong Impression On Own-self.

It Is Easy To Make New Habits

We All Have Many Habits,
     And We Made Those Habits By Either Directly Or Indirectly On Our Regular Basis.

When We Try To Make Any New Habit,
     At That Time It Takes Time To Be Regular.

But Making A New Habit Is Easier Than Changing The Existing Habit.

Yeah, There Will Lots Of Problems Occurred While Making New Habit;
     But You Can Solve Those Problems Easily As You Are Excited For Your New Habit.

But As Per The Nature Of Habit, Once You Are Trapped With Any Habit,
     Then It Is Difficult To Make A Little Change Also In It.

If Necessary Then No Matter How Difficulties Come;
     But You Should Try To Change Your Habit.

What To Do For Completing The Decision.?

When You Decide To Do Something New,
     Then You Try To Follow Your That Decision.

But For Completing Your Decision,
     Obstacles Can Be Come Fall Into Your Path.

If You Strongly Decide To Do Something,
     Then No Matter How Much Time It Takes;
          But You Will Definitely Get Succeed Into Your Decision.

So Try To Avoid The Wasting Of Your Energy On Obstacles,
     And Be Focus On Your Decision.

Excitements About Upcoming Events

We All Have Experienced That,

     Whenever We Super Excited For Any Upcoming Events Or Celebration,

          At That Time We Are Exciting About The Situation To Happen Rather Than That Actual Situation.

If We Know Little Details About That Upcoming Events,

     Then By Imagining About That, We Feel More Excitement.

When Actually That Situation Is Happen At That Time,

     We Do Not Feel That Much Excitement As Before.

We Have Excitement In Waiting For That Upcoming Events Or Celebration Rather Than Enjoyment Of That Events Or Celebration.

Changes In Thoughts With Our Near One But Choice Are Still Same

Our Thoughts And Choices Are Almost Same As Our Family Members Or Near Ones.

We All Have Experienced That As Time Passes Our Thoughts Are Changed With Relate To Our Near Ones;

     But There Is No Change In Our Choices With Our Near Ones.

Changes In Thoughts Are Happened In Most Cases But Changes In Choices Happen In Very Rare Cases.

This Changes Happens Because Of Either Being In Different Situations Or Surrounded By Different People.

No Matter What Changes Are Happened In Thoughts;

     But If Choices Are Still Same Then There Is No Much Difficulty Occurred For Being Together.

Just Make Enough Try To Do Little Changes In Thoughts For Being Able To Understand Each Other's Thoughts And Choices,

     And Things Will Be Automatically Set For You.

Effect Of Making Assumption About Result Based On Incomplete Information

We All Have Very Bad Habit Of Interpretation Of Each Situation By Our Views Only.

And Making Assumptions For Result Is Not Good.

           Effects On Actual Result By Making Assumption About Results

Making Interpretation Of Situation With Just Our Thoughts And Conditions Only, Can Be Proved Dangerous For Us At One Stage.

And Making Assumptions About Results Based On That Interpretation Is Far More Dangerous For Us.

Even If We Do Not Know All The Related Facts About Situation,
     Then Also We Make Assumptions About Results Based On That Known Incomplete Information.

But We Think Like We Are Doing Very Intelligent Work By Doing This.

So Try To Avoid Making Assumptions For Results Based On Incomplete Information.

Incidents Make Our Life More Exciting

So Many Ingredients Are Added In Dish Which Helps To Make A Delicious Taste.
     Likewise There Are Lots Of Incidents Happen In Our Life.

Let's Take Life As Dish And Incident As Ingredients.

These All Incidents No Matter What,
     And How They Happened With Us;
          But They Are There To Make Our Life More Exciting.

There Is Value Of Actions Rather Than Words

We Have Good Views In Life;
     But That Is Worthless If We Do Not Apply It In Our Life.

No Matter What We Decide To Do;
     But Until We Do Not Complete It, That Is Totally Meaningless.

Whatever We Said To Others Like,
    
     "We Will Do This/That Work"

     But There Is No Meaning Of It Unless We Will Not Complete Our Work.

Remember That,
     "There Is A Value Of Actions Rather Than Words Or Thoughts"

Effects On Actual Result By Making Assumption About Results

We All Passes Through Some Of The Situation Where,
     We Make Strong Assumption About The Result Before Arrival Of The Actual Result.

We Assumed Result In Our Favor,
     And If That Actual Result Will Not Come Into Our Favor,
          Then We Get Disappointed And Sometimes Trapped Into Depression Also.

If We Assume Negative Result;
     Means Sometimes We Think Like,
          
          "This Is Not For Us And No Matter What We Tried;
                But Result Will Not Come Into My Favor"
     
     Then We Start To Losing Interest In Doing Try,
          And Then We Find Issues For Giving Clarifications To Others That,
               "Why I Got Failure".

We Always Try To Do That What Is Not Our Hand;
    But In Doing That, We Avoid Things Which Is There Strongly Gripped In Our Hand.

Simple Meaning Of Above Statement Is,
     Result Is Not In Our Hand;
          But By Assumption Of Results, We Avoid To Do Try Which Is Totally In Our Hand,
                And We Can Do The Only Thing That Is To Do Hard Work And Try.

You Can Hard Work And Give Your Best Try For The Better Result;
     But Avoid To Make Assumptions For Results.

Try To Prove Your Point But For That Never Prove Others Wrong

Mostly This Happens That, 
     You Think As If You Are Right At Some Place,
          And Other Person Is Not Agree With That,
               Then That Person Is Wrong At That Point.
                    At Same Time That Person Also Thinks Like He/She Is Right;
                         But You Are Not Agreed With That So You Are Wrong.

But Real Scenario Is Both You And Your Opponent Is Right At Your Respective Point And Situation.

Because You Both Are Not Exactly Aware About Past, Views Or Connected Story Behind That Situation Of Each Other.

It May Be Possible That,
      That Person May Be Wrong But Never Say To Anyone That You Are Fully Wrong At This/That Point;
           Because Based On That Person's Past Situation Or Views, That Person May Be Right At Own Point.

So If You Think That You Are Right At Any Point,
         And You Feel Like Other Person Is Wrong At Same Point,
                  Then Firstly Try To Know And Understand That Person's Situation And Views.

Do Not Interpret Any Situation Without Knowing The Actual Fact

Sometime, We Interpret The Situation Without Knowing The Actual Whole Scenario,
     And That May Lead Us Towards The Wrong Conclusion,
          And As Human Nature, We Feel Lot Of Tension By Thinking Like Situation Is Going Out From Our Hand.

But When We Come To Know The Actual Fact Related To That Situation At That Time We Feel Relax.

Without Knowing All The Fact Related To That Situation,
       Do Not Hurry For Making The Final Conclusion Of Situation.

To Know The Person, Need To Take Person's Quality In Consideration

Sometimes Person Is Good,
     But Person's Situation Is Not Good,
          So We Consider That Person Is Not Good.

Sometimes Person Is Bad,
     But Person's Situation Is Good,
          So We Consider That Person Is Good.

Indeed, To Know How The Person Is, 
     We Consider The Situation Of Person Instead Of Person's Quality.

Quality Can Be Permanent;
     But Situation Is Definitely Lasts As Temporary.

There Is One Fact That,
     "Bad Situation Of Person May Cause Change In Person's Good Quality And That Happens In Very Rare Cases,
      But Person's Good Quality Definitely Make Positive Change In The Person's Bad Situation"

So Always Take Person's Quality As Consideration But Not The Situation.

Try To Be A Helpful Person

There Is No Poor Person In The World Who Can Not Help Other,

     And There Is No Rich Person In The World Who Does Not Need Help From Other.

So Do Not Make Any Excuse For Not Helping,

     As Everyone In The World Is Able To Help Other In Someway;

          And Just Try To Be Helpful Person For Other.

Difference Between Compromise And Sacrifice

We Generally Treat It As Same;
     But Very Thin Line Difference Is There Between Compromise And Sacrifice.

When We Do Compromise That Means We Are Not Happy While We Doing It,
     As We Are Not Doing It By Heart;
          But When We Do Sacrifice, At That Time We Are Happy By Doing It;
               Because There Is Huge Involvement Of Our Heart While We Doing It.

In Compromise We Need To Do Things To Make Others Happy By Losing Our Own Happiness;
     But In Sacrifice, We Make Others Happy By Our Own Happiness.

In Both The Term, 
     We Do Things For Other;
          But In Compromise We Do Things By Losing Our Happiness,
               While In Sacrifice We Do Things With Gaining Lot Of Happiness.

What If You Do Not Like When Others Make Interference In Your Life?

If You Do Not Want That Any Else One Make Interfere In Your Life,
     Then Tell Them Very Clearly On That Person's Face With Very Respect.

But Before That,
     If You Have That Same Habit Of Interference In Others' Life,
          Then Firstly You Have To Stop Doing That. 

Then After, Tell That Person,
     "If I Am Not Doing Any Kind Of Interference In Your Personal And Professional Life,
              Then I Think You Also Should Not To"

But As Long As,
     You Will Not Stop To Make Interference In Others' Life,
          Till That You Are Not Able To Tell Anyone To Stop It In Your Life.

Need To Update With Our Internal Affairs

Nowadays We Want To Be Updated With The World;

     But Meanwhile We Are Forgetting To Be Updated With Ourselves.

We Want To Know All The Details Of Each Affairs Which Currently Happen In The World,

     No Matter Either That Information Is Useful For Us Or Not;

          Because We Already Set One Mindset That,

                 "If We Do Not Update With The World,

             Then We Will Be At The Last Position Than Others"

But My Friend, We Have Set Very Wrong Mindset;

     Because We Are Very Busy In The Competition Of Being First In All Place Among Others In World, That We Have No Time For Knowing Ourselves.

Firstly We Need To Know Everything About Own,

    And Must Need To Update With Our Internal Affairs,

         Then After We Can Update With The World.

Who Can Give You All The Answers Of Your Difficult Questions.?

We All Are Habituated To Ask Everything To Other People About What Is Good For Us And What Is Not.

Sometimes We Get Right Information,
     And Sometimes We Get Information Which Is Not Good For Us.

For Getting Information, We Need To Ask So Many People,
     And That Is Somewhat We Also Do Not Like To Do.

What If You Have The One Person Who Can Answer You About Your Each Question Of Every Field Then It Is Very Good For You, Right?

Every Single Person In The World Have That One Person In Their Life Who Can Give Every Answer, No Matter How Difficult Question Is.

That Person Who Gives You All Right Answers Is Only And Only You.

So Stop Trying To Find Your Answers By Asking Others,
     Because By Doing This, You Are Doing Very Wrong Try.

Just Ask Question To Yourself,
     And Let Your Inner Voice To Answer You.

Be Deserved For Having Desired Things

If Your Desired Things Take Some Time To Come At You,
     Then It Means That Still Now You Are Not Deserved It.

If You Really Want To Have Things In Your Favor,
     Then Do Not Quit And Try To Be Most Deserve-able Person For That.

If We Are Not Deserve-able For That,
     Then We Should Neither Blame On Others Nor To Expect Things For Us.

So If You Do Not Have Things Which You Willingly Want To Have,
     Then You Have Two Options:
          1. To Quit And Forget It
           2. Be Stick On That For Making Yourself Deserve-able For Such Things.

Option For Quitting Is Very Easy So Most Of People Choose It,
     And Then Blame Others For Their Own Issues.

At First Glance,
     Another Option Of Making Yourself To Deserve-able Person Is Very Difficult;
          But Once You Decide To Have Your Desired Ones In Any Cost Without Hurting Others,
               Then It Would Easy For You Slowly.